What a surreal few days it’s been!
Thursday:
8:00 a.m.dropped Ali at school
ran a few errands in town
9:00 a.m. drove out to Hughenden (400-odd km) to collect Peter - his last day there! woo hoo!
2:00 - 5:00 p.m. packed remaining possessions from house there into back of car (almost - had to leave some with a friend!)
5:00 7:30 p.m. Peter coached his last group of Hughenden kids’ tennis
10:00 p.m.drove back to Townsville, arriving 2:00 a.m. Friday (Ali stayed with a friend)
Friday:
tried to sleep in
failed
Peter madly working on computer trying to organise a TENDER - yes, you read it right
NZ partners to rescue - they will complete tender (wonderful, thoughtful friends)
Peter and I lay down for nap
I fluffed my pillow and rearranged covers
He got up - claimed he had rested enough (in three minutes??)
more errands around town - buying chairs for office, clothes and shoes for P and paying bills
at shopping centre, P has notion to check whether his mobile IS set up for international roaming as requested TWO MONTHS ago
surprise surprise surprise - IT ISN’T
$300, half an hour of clenched teeth and barely civil phone call later, it IS
dinner out at local restaurant, nearly asleep in mushroom sauce
packing suitcase, photocopying passport, discussing clothing options at length
bed by 10:30, alarm on mobile phone set for 4:00 a.m.
awake at 11:25 - memo on phone has woken us up to tell us that Peter is flying to LA in the morning (so we’d better get a good night’s sleep. Oh the irony)
Saturday:
4:00 a.m. eyes are open
5:00 a.m. wake up in cafe at airport with a mouthful of coffee
5:30 a.m. Peter leaves. Trying hard not to cry.
home and back to bed
7:30 a.m. P calls from Brisbane
1:00 p.m. P calls from Sydney
Spend day sorting through his clothes and tidying wardrobe
nap in afternoon
starting to feel human again
more tidying, shopping with Ali
early night
wake up all through night waiting for the phone to ring. It doesn’t.
8:00 a.m. email from Peter - safe in L.A. , phone not working (Well, of course not. Why the hell should it?? We asked nicely, paid the $$ but forgot to sacrifice our youngest child and smear her blood all over the Telstra Shop) BUT he has seen Chronicler and is very happily visiting with an old friend. By now, I suspect, he is comatose on her sofa!
8:01 a.m. email from Chronicler (now this is amazing!). She has driven HOURS to meet with Peter for TWO minutes and give him a gift for me!!
12:00 p.m. look at this!! How weird it feels to see my husband on an American blog!! Wish I could see the present he is holding just a l i t t l e better - I have to wait two more weeks to see it.
How incredible are bloggers? The generosity of absolute strangers is a delightful reminder of how cool human beings can actually be. People who think that the computer age has damaged the way in which humans communicate with and relate to each other should spend a day or two blogging. And Chronicler’s blogs are a good place to start. She also has some awesome stuff for sale!
After a couple of days in LA and then a few in Boston, P will be on his way to Germany to visit his brother and sister-in-law. I am so excited for him. This will be the very first time he has ever visited his brother in his brother’s own home!
Next time, we’re hoping to both go ![]()









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September 16, 2007 at 2:04 pm
Meredith
Inter-nation-al tra-vel, allll riiight! Go Peter! He is going to LOVE it! Stiff upper lip there girl. You’ll be right. (I can hear you sniffling from here) xxxxxx
September 16, 2007 at 3:14 pm
Meggie
It all sounds such fun & so exciting for you all.
Best wishes.
September 16, 2007 at 3:56 pm
Leanne
What a great story Yes blogging is truly amazing. I loved your comment about Telstra.
September 16, 2007 at 4:47 pm
crafty
Phew! It’s all go ’round your neck of the woods.
Oh, that blog gift swap thing kind of freaks me out in the coolest possible way. The bag you made is gorgeous!
September 16, 2007 at 4:49 pm
Megan
See now, you *knew* about the child sacrifice rule, but you still didn’t do it. Be it on your own head, Mrs Duncan.
It was pretty cool to see Peter on another blog. Such a funny, friendly, coolest present-giving community we inhabit.
September 16, 2007 at 5:12 pm
crankydee
Just love reading your blog and just caught sight of that fab bag you made for your e-friend in LA. its bonza.
September 16, 2007 at 6:41 pm
nicolette
Oh, my dear, I can so relate to this. With My Sweet Man leaving for intercontinental business trips about 6/7 times a year I know how you must feel. I always have a hard time not to cry when I kiss him goodbye. I feel so empty and so sad then, going home alone. It’s the kick-off for numerous phonecalls on crazy hours. It’s hard to explain to people but I always have a jet-leg too when he comes home again. How wonderful he met Chronicler in the US! Did you ask P to open it and have a sneak peek? Good luck the coming weeks with organizing and I hope you are being supported by Ali! And Hurray for the Tender!
September 17, 2007 at 2:44 am
Christiane
if you go on a Europe trip with Peter and come to Germany, don’t forget to visit me. You’re welcome!
September 17, 2007 at 3:10 am
chronicler
It was a great day indeed. Peter looked a bit tired yet his happy smiling face was a delight. Everyone talks about the drive, nut lest you forget, we americans love our cars! Mine is not quite four years old and has 72+ thousand miles on it. I drive two hours to go everywhere!
And heck, it is such a great thing to connect with friends (be them blog friends) I’d do it again tomorrow if I could. Thanks Kirsty for the props! I hope to be on your turf someday visiting a quilt shop or two!
I love my blogging community!
September 17, 2007 at 7:53 am
Melinda
Were you cat napping as you typed this? I can just picture you… head nodding, string of nonsense covering the screen, snap to it and delete, delete, delete before typing fresh words. Then repeating the process all over again. Hopefully you can take a breath! Beautiful bag, love that fabric and can’t wait to see your gift up close when it finally makes its trip home (Will it have more frequent flyer miles than you do at that point)?
September 17, 2007 at 8:34 am
Fairlie
What a great story! Using Peter as a courier for an international blog swap.
And I loved your description of the Telstra encounter (alas, all too predictable too).
September 17, 2007 at 8:40 am
Isabelle
What fun! Peter looks quite fresh, too, just as if he hadn’t just travelled half way round the world. I’m not that sure that my husband would be up to meeting possibly-stalking strangers. I would, though!
September 17, 2007 at 9:24 am
Erilyn
Thank goodness Peter was OK as a courier - my DH can’t figure why I’d want to meet a stranger (especially from another land), chat and then exchange gifts! Oh, what he is missing out on! Just as well some of us TRUST others
Hope you’ve caught up on the sleep and into the designing/sewing now.
September 17, 2007 at 1:51 pm
peppermintpatcher
Oh wow. No wonder you’ve been laying low. You are running off your feet! I’m glad you have nade the break from Hughenden and now (soon) your Townsville lives will begin!
September 17, 2007 at 5:50 pm
Stomper Girl
Phew! What a whirlwind. The stash you sent to Chronicler was lovely, that bag … stunning! I agree about how cool the blog-age is, my Queensland friend.
September 18, 2007 at 2:34 am
twiddletails
Wow. I’m exhausted now. You are so funny!
September 18, 2007 at 9:13 am
denise
Wow, that was some time getting everything ready.
What fun though to have made a connection with one of our blog friends. I loved the gifts you sent Chronicler, they were beautiful. You are so very talented!!
September 18, 2007 at 11:45 am
amandajean
surreal, indeed! hurray for wonderful bloggers. (of which you are one, too!)