Our new office is in an interesting area on the edge of the City Centre, surrounded by other engineering-type businesses. I look through the windows from my desk and see everyone who walks by. I realised yesterday that there are really only Two Types of Passerby - engineers and people who live in the local halfway houses/hostels.
I’m starting to have favourites. My bestest favourite is Waiting-For-the-Mothership-Dude. He wears one of these.

Peter tells me it’s a radio, but I know different. I know he actually waiting for contact from Beyond. And when that Mothership comes, he’s going to be ready. I hope he’s happy in Space.
I met another man this week, who at first glance is very unattractive. Now I am a firm believer that there are very very few truly unattractive people in the world, but he NEARLY qualified. Within minutes, however, I found him to be one of the most appealing people I have ever met - intelligent, charming, witty, principled and, above all, kind. And I swear he became better looking with every passing moment. I remember a teacher at my (girls’) school telling us fourteen year old fools, “Handsome is as handsome does”. We were a little too vacuous, a little too dumb to really understand. She was right. And Fine Character is a powerful antidote to having missed out on the Cute Gene.









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November 15, 2007 at 9:45 pm
nicolette
You weren’t attracted to him first, because he’s from MARS! They all miss the Cute Gene!
November 15, 2007 at 11:23 pm
Ali
It was good advice. I see beauty in all my friends, because I know what lies under the surface. Although I might find those headphones ever-so-slightly distracting.
November 16, 2007 at 12:02 am
Velcro
umm (looks abashed) I used to have a pair of headphones/radio like that. Alright it was at the end of the 80s and my parents bought them for me (what they were thinking I don’t know). Thinking back I don’t think I ever wore them. Wonder why!
November 16, 2007 at 12:45 am
Melinda
Oooooooo. Does have alumnium foil clothes too?! He wants to go to Mars where he will fit in better.
My grandmother always told me: “Pretty is as Pretty does” when I was little…. and it is true.
November 16, 2007 at 10:49 am
Stomper Girl
Does it go the other way though? If George Clooney was a complete arsehole would we lust after him less? (Fortunately he seems absolutely charming so we don’t have to contemplate that parallel universe.)
November 16, 2007 at 12:20 pm
Shirley
I’ll take personality over looks any day - those of us who didn’t get fabulous bodies, pretty faces and legs up to our armpits (plus whatever the male equivalents are) have to work that bit harder!
November 16, 2007 at 1:29 pm
amandajean
it is interesting to see how character comes to play in the attractiveness of someone.
November 16, 2007 at 1:54 pm
Jade
Or the other half of the discussion that my mum used to tell me….the really pretty/handsome people are not so full up there (or so I’m told). Apparently, the universe has put some checks and balances so that normal people like us are really the best to go for! LOL!
November 16, 2007 at 4:16 pm
peppermintpatcher
I’m sure he’ll be happy in space. He may already be there in mind, while his body remains here…earthbound.
November 16, 2007 at 5:40 pm
Meggie
I once surprised our GP by telling him that I had always been more interested in what was between a man’s ears, than what was between his legs.
Happy travels to space dude.
November 16, 2007 at 8:44 pm
soozadoo
I miss my cafe in the city. There was just a different kind of freak. Youdon’t get that class of freak out in the suburbs. One of my favourites was cat bike man. He had a very crappy old bike with two cats (very happy looking) tied in the basket on the front. It was a very fragrant bike. He wore his helmet everywhere, even when not on his bike. In sweaty ten metres from the sun Townsville, he was a very fragrant man.
November 17, 2007 at 5:58 am
mcewen
I find I usually meet ‘the best’ people when I’ve left my glasses at home!
Cheers
November 17, 2007 at 8:29 am
crafty
I can relate to the beauty on the inside truth, and yes, it does work both ways.
I have seen men who are very nice to look at, turn from lovely to ugly in the time it takes to open their mouths and utter one sentence.
November 17, 2007 at 11:31 am
Margie
i have always taken people as i find them, i am drawn to the odd in the world i always know that they have a story to tell. and it is usually one that is worth hearing, so miss kirsty the office girl… how is it going… what an adventure happy days margie
November 17, 2007 at 4:55 pm
Tanya Brown
It’s funny, isn’t it? After you’ve seen somebody with dragon breath and their face smashed by a pillow at 4 a.m., or necked with them by a sink full of dirty dishes, the layers start peeling away and you just start seeing the person inside. External beauty can be fleeting.
November 27, 2007 at 3:00 pm
suzi-k
oooh people watching is one of my favourite pastimes! We are such a varied and fascinating species. hehe, having also been near the back of the cute gene queue when they were handed out, I have held firmly to that idea. But kidding aside, there is some truth to it….except when people have let it turn them into bitter and manipulative “poor me, I lost out and now the world owes me” types! Love the image of Soozadoo’s cat-bike man!